Many couples try their hand at domination or BDSM, not knowing what it really is. Moreover, it is not only couples, they are also people who want to experience it, and who have recourse to SM dating via websites or by word of mouth, it is especially the literature of 'today which has almost become a fad.
What is BDSM?
BDSM is like rough porn which means concretely: bondage, discipline, domination as well as submission and finally sadomasochism. In bondage, you attach your partner with links such as handcuffs, chains or ropes, it should be noted that it comes from a Japanese practice called chibrai or kinbaku. We are subject to the will of the dominant and we follow his orders without complaining that is discipline. The submissive person is totally guided by the dominant who takes pleasure in having a sexual partner who does whatever he wants. Finally, the erotic games of sadomasochism consist in tormenting the submissive person who undergoes practices between pain and pleasure.
Be careful that this does not turn unhealthy for example a partner who cannot make love normally may have a psychological problem. In a normal relationship, it is important to stress that this is just about shared pleasure. Before practicing BDSM, a couple must trust each other and dialogue is very important, the couple sets limits not to be exceeded. Everyone must feel comfortable with their role and agree to change it if the other feels the need. Consent is required for each couple not only for the submissive but also for the dominant.
Finally, you have to follow the safety rules to the letter: as never leave a person alone with a gag on their mouth, do not use dangerous toys or that could harm your partner, it is important to agree with a safety gesture if the submissive person wants to stop.
